026 | Why You Keep Attracting What You Don’t Want in Love: When Fear Disguises Itself as Standards
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This episode takes an honest look at how fear shapes the way many women move in love. A lot of dating conversations today center on protection, red flags, and staying guarded so you don’t get hurt again. You hear things like “the dating pool is trash,” “there are no good men left,” or “men always disappoint.” While those statements can feel validating in the moment, they also train your nervous system and expectations in ways that directly shape your dating experiences.
We explore how fear can disguise itself as standards, hyper-vigilance, or emotional walls, and how the stories you repeat about love influence who you attract and how you show up in connection. This conversation breaks down how past experiences condition your nervous system and what shifts when you move from constant self-protection into presence and self-trust. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same dating cycles or caught yourself bracing for disappointment before anything even begins, this episode will help you understand what’s really driving your patterns and how to start relating to love differently.
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